Friday, October 11, 2013

Should girls ask boys to go out ?

In my opinion , I think that girls should do it , because if she really likes the boy and she really wants to know him well , its good for her to invite him to go out . In all humanity life , it was like a RULE that boys should invite girls to go out , but for me , it doenst exist anymore . Like Karen said , our generation its a little bit different from the others , cuz now girls that see that the boy is shamefull and take to long to ask them to go out , that girls nowadays knows how to deal with it and go ask guy to date her or ask him to go out . If the person really wants to know another person well , doesnt matter if its a boy or a girl , that person should ask him to go out , u cant wait the person if she doesnt have attitude enough to deal with it .

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  1. thats ok if a girl take some initiative too, like asking to go out, but if the girl takes all the initiative and the responsability of trying to get closer to the boy, because that is like a mans characteristic to be confident enough to "win his battles" by himself. I don't know, thats just my point of view.

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  2. Well Marcos, I think that the girls must be more reserved, and let the boy call her to go out and things like this. Because if the girl go and ask the boy to go out with her, lots of boys will think, oh she's "easy". And she will have a bad fame.

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    1. I totally agree with you Thais, if a girl ask a boy to go out with her the boy will have a bad impression of the girl. But I think that there is exceptions, for example if the girl knows the boy for a long time, and knows his character and knows he will not play with her, she can ask him to go out.

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  3. In My time, the boys should invite the girls to go out and that habit was really interesting because there was always that doubt if She was going to acept the invitation or not. It's very confortable to Boys be invited by girls . l agree with Caren , otherwise the begining of a date looses it's magic.

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  4. The relationship between people some times look very strange, the tougher the situation gets the more interested some people will be, so l won't never agree that Girls should also agree the Boys to go out or to date.

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  5. Well i partly agree with you because , i think that it is not wrong for a girl to ask a boy to go out, but ,most of the times it just doesn t feels right to be invited by a girl to go out or do other stuff

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  6. Well, I think during my father's time, boys should invite girls to go out, not girls invite the boys. But nowadays, girls sometimes invite the boys, but I think it depends on the girl. When the girl really loves and need to get to know him, I just can't see anything wrong, when she invites him to go out. But when the girl just want to kiss the boy and steer away from him, I think it's wrong. I really agree with Marcos Felipe, humanity said that boys HAS TO invite girls, and our generation is showing us, that this is totally different. The phrase I think that matches here is: haters gonna hate, depend of the person who talks.

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  7. Well, I think during my father's time, boys should invite girls to go out, not girls invite the boys. But nowadays, girls sometimes invite the boys, but I think it depends on the girl. When the girl really loves and need to get to know him, I just can't see anything wrong, when she invites him to go out. But when the girl just want to kiss the boy and steer away from him, I think it's wrong. I really agree with Marcos Felipe, humanity said that boys HAS TO invite girls, and our generation is showing us, that this is totally different. The phrase I think that matches here is: haters gonna hate, depend of the person who talks.

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  8. I agree with you Marcos, nowadays it's not only boys that should invite a girl if he wants to know her better, she can also invites him. but that's a thing that is changing yet, and it would be nice to see in the future, both boys and girls getting along well without being weird or something. But in the present, you will probably stay alone if you wait, so be self confident, and invite the girl.

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