Friday, September 6, 2013
Is marriage an obligation when you love someone ?
We don t need to participate in any kind of cerimony to express how we feel about those we love , it is not needed to prove anyone about that . In my opinion people shoudn t feel obligated to marry someone just because you like him/her or been together for some time, you should first enjoy your time with him/her and try to live your life without worring about that . And we can t forget that marriage in many cultures is just a religious union you don t need to participate in that if you have a stable relantionship and want to keep it that way, but anyway I respect those who think that marriage is important and by all means I M not saying marriage is a waste of time , money Etc ,I am just saying that in my point of view ,couples have more important things to discuss and to do in a relationship instead of planning a wedding , they should first focus in making there "Soulmates" happy .
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I agree with you in parts Yuri, because marriage is a really important part in a relationship, when two people decide they really love each other. And I think that it's like a proof for each other. Sure have more things to decide in a relation, but in my point of view marriage is one of the most important things.
ReplyDeleteI agree with you Yuri, people should enjoy their time together without having to marry, if they love each other, they will stay together, and if someday they don't want to stay together anymore, they just follow their way, there are more important things in a relationship than marriage, such as, keep the relationship stable.
ReplyDeleteI agree because marry is not something that make a big change, it's just more like a "status", and it is a hard choice, because getting married is suppoused to be forever, what actually don't happens at all, thats why it's so hard, there is lots of people that marry and in 1 month they just decide to don't keep with it.
ReplyDeleteI totally agree with Yuri because there's one part of wedding that it's just "ilusion" and the couple should worry less about that and think more in what will happen after they got married and be ready for the real life .
ReplyDeleteI agree with you in parts, there are many things importants to think before you decide to get married, we can't get married just because we are being obligate or because of pressure!But I think when two people love each other and they are sure about that and want to spend all their lives with each other, marriage is very important. Because when you get married you establish ties, you want to create a family and live together for all life!
ReplyDeleteI agree, I dont think Marriage its an obligation. You have to be confortable with that, and thats an option you have. I think unfortunately that society really wants to make we get marriage, there is a pressure to keep the appearance, and I hate this . I think marriage its a personal choice, and the only thing that should make you choose its love.
ReplyDeleteI agree with Yuri,marriage isn't an obligation.But,normally,when you want something serious with your partner and your sure that your relationship will be always good enough to support your partner for your whole marriage life;you should marriage.Obvious that if you want to marriage just because it looks like the best thing to do,you shouldn't do it.And I,really,respect others opinions.Karen Tabata
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