Hello everybody,how are you?
Honesty is a very difficult thing to have,isn't it?Normally,you don't want to say the truth(to be honesty),because you'll probably hurt someone's feelings.But I thing that we should try to always say the truth,even if it's an unpleasant thing.Of course,you should see and evaluate if the truth that you'll say is really necessary ;other wise,you shouldn't say an unimportant thing,just to hurt the other and create enmity(just hold yourself and don't pronounce a word).Concluding,if you are in doubt to be honesty and hurt somebody(that after some time will be recovered);or lie at the present and hurt this person in the future(if this person discover your lie,probably won't trust you anymore.Same as broken friendship.)...Choose the right thing(following God's commandments-say the truth,always the truth).That's what I think;but I don't judge others opinions...So,please comment!!!Thank you for your patience and bye.
Karen Tabata
I think the same as you, because I don't like when people try to hide something from me, even there is a good motive for this, a good friend won't hide anything from you, he will tell you the truth and help you deal with it.
ReplyDeleteVery good post Karen, I agree that being honest isn't easy especially when You don't want to hurt somebodyelse's feeling but there is always a special way to be true without being unpleasant . I Always look for being close to relieble people, otherwise We'll have only dishonest people around You.
ReplyDeleteI agree with you ,being honest isn t easy but sometimes we all need to pull up some strenght and tell the truth but i think that we always need to find a way to do the best thing to those who we love even if we need to lie ... there is the old saying that says ;
ReplyDeleteTell a lie one hundred times and it becomes a truth...
by the way your text was really good and your ideas were clear :)
ReplyDeleteI totally agree with you because we all need to tell the truth even if it'll hurt someones feeling , it's the best way of dealing with something . If u tell only the truth , people might trust more on u .
ReplyDeleteI agree with you, If it's something important and that can cause problems in the future is better tell the truth as fast as possible, but carefully to don't hurt people we love.
ReplyDeleteYou're right, I agree with your opinion. Sometimes it can hurt but we must speak the truth, even though most of the time we do the opposite!
ReplyDeleteI agree, trying to always be honest is the best thing you can do, there are some things that you don't have to say, but there are others that you must say, even it can hurts someone's feeling, try to do this in a comprehensive way, the truth may hurt, but discover it by other person is worse, you gotta be honest and say what bothers you, or what do you think about that thing. It can cause problems in the relationship, but later it can become a good thing and even make the relationship better
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